Change the way you host

Once it’s weekend, odds are you will be invited to a braai or party better known as a chill sessions which always turn out wild, then gets classified as a party, regardless I've seen a trend which I don’t approve of.  Simply that people don’t socialize, you end up chilling with the crowd you came with, the host would come,  have an effortless conversation then rush off to handle meat or something*yawns*. I would seriously rather go clubbing.

It’s the hosts duty to ensure that people mingle and break boundaries (usually the cool kids don’t want to hang with unknowns). I've thought of a few guidelines on how to be the perfect host:

• Ensure you introduce guests to each other
• Plan drinking games
• Shots should be given out every 30min
• Make cocktails for your guests
• Have a karaoke segment
• Play some old school jams and see how it gets people talking (after all it’s a braai not a club)
• Control your crowd
• Music must not be loud, unless it’s the jika ma jika segment
• Keep asking your guests if everything is still fine
• A braai should end round 2am at the latest

P.S Remember ‘please everyone’.

Much Love

Rizz